Good morning! Just a little FYI, I got the Promotion and the raise! Thanks for all you do to help me!
Very Happy
Dear Gus, I'm more than happy to write a testimonial about your technique/service. I have been much more productive in my life. By not allowing myself to try to orchestrate every single facet and nuance I'm better able to observe and take in fully each experience
Since I have learned and implemented the "flipping" process, my life has changed exponentialy! The results varried from situation to situation as I learned that I could actualy could control how I felt about any given situation and therefore become more proactive in creating my own life. I am taking better control of my life in a very different sense of "controling my life" or letting life control me. I am happier in every aspect of my life now more than ever, even when I'm in the middle of percieved disaster. I step out of my comfort zone and learn to feel good there and it's a great place to be and am able to move forward with ease and knowingness that all is well always.
L. Adams, Newport Beach
I just need to tell you this....................
I realize now that my "state of being" has been contributing to the way I see the world.....the way I live and feel. And I certainly thank you for shedding light (showing me the way), therefore allowing me to begin to guide myself.
It is amazing how I am feeling. I have become aware of everything! I see the trees swaying in the wind, the birds landing for a quick breath and then taking off again on their journey. I also see that I am not where I want to be professionally. Moving to a higher level is not an issue. More money is definitely not an issue. I just know this is not the place I should be. I know I will leave. When...I don't know.
Yesterday I walked my dog in the preserve behind my house. I have walked her there for 10 years, yet I saw its true beauty for the very first time. Suddenly, I found myself overwhelmed with emotion and could not (would not) continue on to the dog park. My friends there would have thought I had lost my mind. But nothing has been lost.
I have found myself.
What a great week I have had! Just call me "flip". haha It is surprising to me how much calmer I feel. Even more than calm...?? I am so very much aware of what goes on around me, yet, no matter what comes at me, I handle so well.
My whole being ....every ounce of me...was so out of whack and I did not see it was me causing the problem. I do have common sense.....always have. I am not a dreamer, not really. I have goals and desires but I generally reach my goal and then move on from there. Your lessons are teaching me to look within myself as well as my surroundings. This week at work was so very calm. My calmness and my being so aware of how I felt and what I thought, AND THEN FLIPPING IT, I think, actually had an impact on my boss as well. My boss just left. He came in upset because he has nothing to do. He began to rip apart a post card I designed. But I was way ahead of him. I "noticed" that I stress me out (didn't matter if he was stressed) and when he was upset, I thought "he should not be upset". I therefore had no reason to upset myself. I actually have a huge smile on my face right now because it absolutely worked!!!!! You are the best!!
My momentary depression is gone. I think you were right...it was me seeing things in ME that I did not like. Anyway, have had a wonderful few days. I CONSTANTLY think of the steps and can not describe to you how well it has worked and how good I feel. My boss started in with his ranting...I noticed.....I thought and I flipped it (back at him). Again, and again, and again, until finally...he even calmed down. His stress is not my stress. Right now, I don't even think my stress is my own anymore. I see now how it has been controlling SO MUCH of my life and know now that it is just not worth it....why fight it....just let it go. I feel as though I am walking on air....no stress AT ALL in 2 days.
J, Fl
I have drawn the conclusion that I still need more coaching. Since I have not had my weekly coaching sessions, I have begun to revert too far backward. I'm not 'flippping- out- of'.. things as I used too. I'm still able to deal will things a little bit better than before coaching, but nothing like I was when I was speaking with you regularly. I want to resume our coaching. I am a living testament that your methods work! Without remembering the formulas, everything gets too complicated mentally for me. Thank you for your help and assistance.
C. Brooks
Syndicate
A whole new world for me
After a decade of intensive training and practice with other forms of transformational work, I was blessed 3 months ago with the opportunity to discover the power of 18Mind. Prior to that, I did have a pretty good life and things were going along as well as I could have imagined given the limitations of what I believed to be possible.
In short, 18Mind exploded onto the scene of my life and and utterly annihilated that limitation. At this point, I've had so many breakthroughs I actually keep a journal now in order to chronicle my path to enlightenment. One of my favorite cognitions and breakthroughs happened just last week.
I'm 44 and never married. Oh, not that I didn't try. All in all, I have a rather impressive track record of 8 failed romances in the course of my life. A little over a month ago, I stepped up one more time with an amazing woman. When ever I have imagined my perfect mate and life partner, Rachel measures up in every way. She's a walking dream - an answer to a prayer. She's warm, loving, beautiful, intelligent, sensual, funny, generous, sweet, kind, considerate, charitable, sexy, patient, open-minded and just so incredibly easy to be with. Rachel is a brilliant conversationalist, she's ambitious and courageous in her career endeavors, devoted to her family and has this amazingly attractive sense of adventure in life. She's all I've ever wanted. Get the picture?
Well, as these things often go, in the midst of all the fun we're having together, we came upon a few moments where we discovered ourselves at odds with one another. I reached a point at which I felt that I was again on oh-so-familiar terrain. I'd discovered Rachel's Achilles heal - the reason I KNEW for which we would ultimately end our relationship. And, it was as simple as demonstrating what, for me, appeared to be an across-the-board and out-of-hand mistrust in me with no real evidence to support it. It seemed out of character for Rachel to be mistrusting in such a way. It didn't make any sense actually. It just didn't add up. And, I could see the handwriting on the wall - that if this is the way it was going to be, I couldn't see this love affair surviving the long run. I mean, who wants to be in a relationship like that, right?
Her mistrust in me showed up in several ways, the most noteworthy of which was in her flat denial of my request that we share a common path in our journeys toward enlightenment. I had hoped that Rachel would simply trust in me and put her faith only in my desire to share something with her that has become so important to me - the world of 18Mind.
Freedom
Before 18mind, I had been in heavy-duty training and development for a number of years. Prior to that I had been reading numerous disciplines for even more years. The last technology I had been participating in was wonderful, and lots of things in my life improved. Still, with all this training, there was still this one area of my life that it wasn't working on. This one thing wasn't budging. Honestly, I thought, "This is great, and it works for most things, but this one thing I have left it's just not going to work on." I was totally resigned. I had been getting every type of coaching imaginable inside this other methodology; nicey-nice coaching, in-your-face coaching, committed coaching, everything. Nothing worked with any lasting power. I had little breakthroughs, but nothing that actually stayed with me for any length of time. Then, one Sunday afternoon, inside of 5 minutes, I got coaching in the 18mind method, and the hold that thing had on me went away. It has not come back. That was over a month ago. I got freedom in five minutes. This has absolutely changed my life. Wherever I am, I am totally at peace. That is a miracle indeed!
Such a huge change!!!
My life has changed dramatically!! The intense stress I was feeling is, for the most part, gone. I truly feel a sense of calmness and joy. It is as though I have surrendered to the fact that I was causing my own stress. My coach at 18mind has stuck by me every step of the way and has helped me to see that I must constantly get out of my own way and to let the goodness, joy and love within me shine brightly.
It changed my mind, hence, it changed my life
It changed my mind, hence, it changed my life